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Modern Love

What is modern love?

· Sarah Mitchell

Key facts

Focus romantic courtship and companionate marriage[1]
Key ideal 1 emotional intimacy[1]
Key ideal 2 mutual choice[1]
Related concept companionate marriage[1]
Claimed condition 1 changing gender relations and patriarchal ideology[2]
Claimed condition 2 consumerism[2]

Modern love is a contemporary idea of romantic love shaped by changing gender relations, consumer culture, and shifting social norms around courtship and marriage.

Context

Modern love is treated as an ideal of emotional intimacy and companionate marriage, and also as a relationship form with less fixed rules and higher expectations for personal fulfillment [2].

Documented claims

  • Modern love is described as having less social pressure to commit to a relationship or marry. [3]
  • Modern love is described as involving heightened expectations for a soul mate, confidant, passionate lover, or therapist. [3]

Questions and answers

What are the key ideals of modern love?

The key ideals of modern love are emotional intimacy and mutual choice [1].

How is modern love influenced by societal changes?

Modern love is influenced by changing gender relations, consumer culture, and shifting social norms around courtship and marriage [2].

Sources

  1. [PDF] Modern Loves - University of Michigan Press — press.umich.edu (retrieved August 3, 2026)
  2. Love as a Commitment Device : Evidence from a Cross ... - PMC — pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov (retrieved August 3, 2026)
  3. Modern Love — scribd.com (retrieved August 3, 2026)

Sources last checked August 3, 2026. · More in Culture